Pleasure has always driven me. I haven’t ever had much patience for tedium or effort for effort’s sake, but if something sparks that drive within me, I will stop at nothing to get what I want. I love all of life’s pleasures, particularly music, art, good food, travel, and – of course – sex. Pleasure feeds my ambition: if I can do something, I want to explore it to its fullest extent. Life is difficult and all-too-short – so I take every opportunity I can to experience what the world has to offer while I have it!
I haven’t always been so pleasure-focused: in my younger years, I was driven mostly by the desire to excel in both academia and music. I achieved my dreams of attending a prestigious university, followed by an equally prestigious classical conservatoire: these experiences were incredibly formative both in my intellectual and musical development. Even in these years of intensely disciplined study, I was focused on learning as much as I could about human sexuality, trying to unpick the tangle of obsession, shame, and regulation that I observed around me as a young woman growing up in the UK in the 2000s. This laid the foundation for my current philosophy of sexual expression – more on that later.
After leaving my studies, I went on to qualify as a primary school teacher, wanting to work in a field that involved a more immediate contribution to society. While I had many strengths as a teacher in my creativity, curiosity, and ability to adapt, I was unable to cope with the intense workload, rigid ideas of teaching and learning, and endless scrutiny. In my efforts to conform to the expectations placed upon me, I lost touch with many of the things that brought me pleasure and joy: music, art, fashion, cooking, reading for pleasure, and the most intimate pleasures of the flesh.The stress of this effort, exacerbated by physical and mental illnesses, led to a total collapse of my health in 2023.
I turned to sex work after it became clear I was too sick to continue teaching, and – despite the enormous upheaval this transition has effected – I have truly found my passion in life. I relish being an expert in pleasure, revered for my physique, sensuality, and intellect!
a philosophy of play and pleasure
Play is the common thread across the various avenues I have explored in my life. My core vocation is play: sexual activity, fetish play, and BDSM are just some of the ways we play as adults, and so my sessions are intended to be not only pleasurable but fun for us both. As we head into ever-more-turbulent times, I consider playful pain and pleasure as absolutely essential to building individual resilience within a safe container of fantasy. Time spent in fantasy-land, roleplaying and assuming archetypes and power dynamics allows us to eroticise the challenges of life and spend some time away from the stresses of the “real world”.
Practically speaking, I apply psychological techniques and performance research methods I learned in my days as an academic and teacher (adapted, of course, for the specific demands of working as a professional pervert!) Whether you are looking for submissive training with a unique London Dominatrix; hairy body worship, latex, leather, or nylon fetish or sadomasochist sessions; or a sensual, luxurious kinky girlfriend experience, my approach is being constantly refined through a (somewhat) systematic cycle of research and training, planning, practice, and reflection.
BDSM and fetish activities always involve a degree of risk – some more than others! Health and safety is of paramount importance to me, and I work from trusted studios and apply the best possible hygiene and safety practices to manage risks. I only offer activities in which I have experience and/or specific training, and when I wish to refine to expand my skill set, I only receive training from reputable, experienced colleagues.
I have previously trained with:
Madame Li Ying (sharps, sounding)
Miss Lilly (sharps, whipping, caning)
Miss Kim Rub (sharps)